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Key points

Key points

  1. 1A customer discovery interview exists to learn about the customer's problem and past behavior, not to pitch or validate your idea.
  2. 2Ask about specific past events rather than opinions or hypothetical futures, and let the customer do most of the talking.
  3. 3Treat compliments as noise and look for commitments such as time, introductions or money, which show that interest is real.
  4. 4Interview in pairs, write notes the same day and review them as a team, so that what you learn changes decisions instead of staying in one founder's head.

What discovery interviews are for

Customer discovery is the work of understanding a customer's situation, needs and pain points before you commit to a solution. Harvard Business School's Rock Center for Entrepreneurship lists its objectives as validating strong, unmet needs, confirming the problem is worth solving, estimating the size of the market and understanding the buying process and barriers to adoption. It names the matching mistake for the first objective: proceeding to a solution without validating the need (HBS Rock Center).

Interviews are the main tool, and they are easy to get wrong. People are kind. If you describe your idea and ask what they think, most will say it sounds great. Rob Fitzpatrick's book The Mom Test is built around this problem, describing how to learn whether a business is a good idea "when everyone is lying to you" (The Mom Test). The name comes from the idea that a good question is one even your mother cannot answer with a kind lie.

Every interview should leave you with facts about the customer's world: what they do today, what it costs them, what they have tried and who decides. Opinions about your idea are not facts.

Who to interview and how to find them

Pick one or two personas. HBS recommends defining a few target personas, each with its own situation and motivations, and focusing on one or two primary ones (HBS Rock Center). Distinguish between the person who uses a product and the person who pays for it, since in many businesses they are different people with different problems.

Decide how many. HBS guidance, read on 2026-10-17, suggests that in the early stages the right number is about five interviews per persona, run with a consistent structure (HBS Rock Center). Five per persona is a first pass. Keep going while each interview still teaches you something, and stop when you can predict what the next person will say.

Find people. Start with warm introductions and work outward:

  • People in your network who match the persona, or who know someone who does.
  • Online communities, forums and groups where the persona discusses the problem.
  • Short cold emails or messages that ask for advice about a problem, not time to pitch a product.
  • Events and meetups where the persona gathers.

The Frank Thoughts newsletter, summarizing The Mom Test, puts the goal well: "the point of cold calls is to stop having them." Once someone responds, use them to reach others in the same market (Frank Thoughts). The NSF I-Corps hub at Desert Pacific suggests ending every interview by asking whether there is someone else you should talk to and whether they would introduce you, since a warm introduction is more likely to lead to another interview than a cold approach (Desert Pacific I-Corps).

Frame the request around learning. "I am researching how small clinics handle scheduling and would value twenty minutes of your experience" gets more yeses than "Can I show you my app?" and produces a better conversation.

The rules of a good question

The Mom Test reduces good interviewing to three rules, summarized by the research platform Koji: talk about their life instead of your idea, ask about specifics in the past instead of hypotheticals about the future, and talk less and listen more (Koji).

HBS turns the same ideas into a list of what to do and what to avoid (HBS Rock Center):

DoAvoid
Focus on learningPitching or selling
Listen more than you talkFilling silences with your own views
Ask open questions like "Walk me through the steps"Leading questions like "Wouldn't you agree that..."
Ask "Tell me about the last time you...""How likely are you to..." or "Would you buy this?"
Probe root causes with repeated "why" questionsAccepting the first answer

Past behavior is reliable because it already happened. Koji's guide explains that a customer cannot embellish what they did last month as easily as they can construct a rosy hypothetical future (Koji). Compare two questions:

  • Weak: "Would you use a tool that automated your invoicing?"
  • Strong: "Tell me about the last time you sent invoices. How long did it take? What went wrong?"

The first invites a polite yes. The second produces a story with times, tools and frustrations you can check against other interviews.

HBS adds a point about what to listen for: when you ask open questions, you are looking for emotion and frustration, because the emotional response is the signal (HBS Rock Center). A customer who sighs before describing a monthly process is telling you more than one who calls it "a bit annoying."

An interview guide you can adapt

Keep the guide short. Three or four core questions, plus follow-ups, are enough for a twenty to thirty minute conversation.

Get comfortable with silence. When a customer stops talking, wait a few seconds before asking the next question. People often add the most useful detail after a pause, such as the workaround they are embarrassed about or the cost they had not mentioned. Filling every silence with your own comment is one of the quickest ways to turn an interview into a pitch.

1. Context (2 minutes)
   "Tell me about your role and what a typical week looks like."

2. The last time (10 minutes)
   "Tell me about the last time you [dealt with the problem area]."
   Follow-ups: What happened next? Who else was involved?
               How long did it take? What did it cost?

3. What they have tried (5 minutes)
   "What have you tried to fix this? What happened?"
   "What do you use today? What do you like and dislike about it?"
   "Have you paid for anything to solve it?"

4. Priority and decision (5 minutes)
   "Where does this rank among the problems you deal with?"
   "If you wanted to change how this works, who would need to agree?"

5. Close (3 minutes)
   "Is there anything I should have asked but didn't?"
   "Who else should I talk to about this?"

Two follow-ups do most of the work: "Can you give me an example?" and "Why?" Use them whenever an answer is vague.

Notice that the guide never describes your solution. In early discovery, that is deliberate. Once you have confirmed the problem, a later round of interviews can show a mockup or prototype, but the questions should still focus on how it fits what the customer already does.

Handling compliments, fluff and pitches

Three kinds of answers feel like data but are not.

  • Compliments. "That sounds amazing" tells you about the person's manners, not their needs. Koji's summary of The Mom Test calls compliments social lubricant and says they are worth nothing unless accompanied by a commitment of time, money, reputation or a referral (Koji).
  • Fluff. Generic claims ("I always..."), future promises ("I would definitely...") and hypotheticals ("I might..."). The Frank Thoughts newsletter describes fluff as statements with a weak qualifier and recommends pushing back on it (Frank Thoughts). Bring the conversation back to a specific past event: "When was the last time that happened?"
  • Your own pitch. If you find yourself explaining your idea, you have stopped learning. Stop, apologize and ask another question about their experience.

When the problem is confirmed and you do show an early product, look for two signals that the research platform Looppanel describes from the book. Commitment means the person gives up something they value, such as time, reputation or money. Advancement means they move to the next step of your real sales process (Looppanel). Ending a meeting with "That's great, keep me posted" is neither. Ending it with "Let's set up a trial with my team next week" is both.

Interviewing around a switch

The jobs to be done approach offers a useful structure for interviews with people who have already bought or abandoned a product. It treats customers as "hiring" products to make progress toward a goal, and focuses on the moment they decide to switch.

User researcher Nikki Anderson, writing for dscout, describes recruiting three groups: people who have just started using a product, people who have just stopped, and people who have not yet used it. Her interviews center on the "switch event" and ask what other solutions people considered, what they were trying to find and what they were trying to solve (dscout). She warns that asking someone directly why they switched produces a surface answer, and that the deeper motive comes out through stories.

Commoncog, describing its own team's use of the method, recommends working backward from the purchase and quotes the opening question the method's authors suggest for every interview: "Why did you buy it and where were you when you bought it?" The article suggests using environmental details, such as the weather or a trip, to help people place events on a timeline accurately (Commoncog). It also notes that a badly run interview cannot be rescued in analysis: if you did not capture the timeline, the gaps stay empty.

This format works best once you have customers or a clear competitor to study. For a product that does not exist yet, interview people who have switched between existing alternatives in the past few months in your space.

Notes, synthesis and next steps

Interview in pairs. HBS recommends a discovery team of two or three, where one person asks questions and the others observe and take notes (HBS Rock Center). The Frank Thoughts newsletter suggests focusing notes on the big beats, such as pain points, follow-up tasks and introductions, and on strong emotions (Frank Thoughts).

Write it up the same day. Looppanel's summary of the book warns against the "learning bottleneck", where what was learned stays in one founder's head instead of being shared promptly and faithfully with the team. It suggests a sortable spreadsheet with key signals in their own columns (Looppanel). A simple structure:

ColumnExample
Date, name, personaClinic owner, two therapists
Last time the problem occurredDouble booking last Tuesday, lost a patient
Current workaroundPaper diary plus text reminders
Money or time spentTwo hours a week of front desk time
EmotionFrustrated, embarrassed with patients
Commitment offeredIntroduced a colleague
SurprisesInsurance paperwork is a bigger pain

Look for patterns, not quotes. After each batch of five or so interviews, count how many people described the same problem unprompted, what they use today, and who decides. A single vivid story can mislead. A problem that half the interviewees raise without prompting is worth pursuing.

Use AI for preparation and sorting, not for the conversations. The NSF I-Corps hub at Great Lakes suggests using AI to draft open-ended questions, generate candidate personas and rehearse interviews by asking a model to play the customer and then critique your questions. It also lists the limits: you still need to interview real customers to validate any idea an AI suggests, AI output can be false, and you should not paste sensitive or personal information into these tools (Great Lakes I-Corps).

Decide what changes. End each batch by writing down which assumptions were confirmed, which were contradicted, and what you will test next. Discovery that does not change a decision was only conversation.

FAQ

FAQ

How long should a customer discovery interview be?

Twenty to thirty minutes is enough for most early interviews, and short requests are easier to accept. Jobs to be done interviews that reconstruct a purchase timeline can take longer. Respect the time you asked for and offer to continue only if the person is clearly engaged.

Should I record interviews?

Record only with permission, and know why you are doing it. Recordings help when you want exact quotes or need to share interviews with a team that could not attend. Many founders find that a dedicated note taker and a same-day write-up are more useful than hours of audio no one reviews.

Can I interview friends and family?

Use them to practice your questions and to get introductions, but do not count their answers as evidence. They want to support you, which is exactly the bias the interview is trying to avoid. Real evidence comes from people who match your persona and have no reason to be kind.

When should I show my product or prototype?

After you have confirmed that the problem is real and frequent for your persona. Showing a solution too early turns the interview into a pitch and invites compliments. When you do show it, ask how it would fit what they did last time and ask for a concrete next step.

What if no one describes the problem I expected?

That is a valuable result. Look at what problems people did raise without prompting, especially ones that came up repeatedly with emotion. Many successful companies started by following the problem customers kept mentioning rather than the one the founder planned to solve.

Sources

Sources

  1. Harvard Business School Rock Center: Customer Discovery Basics
  2. The Mom Test by Rob Fitzpatrick
  3. Frank Thoughts: The Mom Test, Talking to Customers the Right Way
  4. Desert Pacific I-Corps: Tips and Best Practices for Conducting Customer Discovery Interviews
  5. Koji: The Mom Test for Customer Interviews
  6. Looppanel: The Mom Test for Better Customer Interviews
  7. dscout: Jobs to be Done 101, Your Interviewing Style Primer
  8. Commoncog: Putting the Jobs to be Done Interview to Practice
  9. Great Lakes I-Corps: How to Use AI for Customer Discovery
About the author

About the author

Antonio Evans
Antonio Evans

Antonio Evans is the founder of Quanta Intelligence and a fractional CTO who builds HIPAA-ready AI systems for health and life-science companies. Before that he was technical co-founder of FriendsEAT for twenty years, CEO of Socialdraft, and a data engineer at IBM. Antonio lives with his dog Santino in Lisbon, Portugal.

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