Most teams start an interview with a mental list of competitors drawn from the market category they believe they are in. That list is usually incomplete in two directions. It misses the messy, homemade substitutes customers actually built, and it includes funded competitors that customers never considered.
April Dunford defines positioning around how your product is different and better than alternatives for a particular set of customers, which makes the alternatives themselves the starting point of the work rather than an afterthought (April Dunford on positioning). The same point shows up in her account of a database company she joined early in her career: prospects kept saying "we have Oracle," so the team stopped selling a database and repositioned as a business intelligence tool, which put the real differentiator at the center (the product positioning exercise). That reframe only became possible because someone heard what customers were comparing the product to.
The failure mode runs both ways. Dunford describes the common case where a founder has the story right with early customers, but the rest of the team is telling a different story (the Lenny's Newsletter summary). Interviews with people outside your own building are the cheapest way to find out which of those stories matches the customer's world.
A second reason to focus on past behavior: the questions most teams ask first are the most misleading. Justin Wilcox, writing about customer development interviews, says outright that "would you use a product that does X" and "how much would you pay" are the most misleading questions, and that the rule is not to talk about your idea at all during the interview (Customer DevLabs on customer interviews). Once you mention your idea, your own brain starts hunting for validation and the other person, wanting to be helpful, supplies it.



